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Routines and changes

Life has settled back into  our summer routine. I’m starting to work on the boy’s sleep schedule. On Monday they start back into theater camp. That means they need to be up and moving to be out the door to be at camp at 9am. There have been days this summer where Colby didn’t get up until 10am. What is going to happen when he’s a teen if he does this at 10?

I got the boys up today at 8am and we did a workout. We did a 25 min cardio and then a 5 min abs. Richard and I are starting a new workout routine on Monday and the boys say they want to do it too… lets see if we can all get up and moving to do it.

The boys and I are also going to the grocery store today. We worked on the menu last night… fish tacos (I made homemade coleslaw for this), ribs with corn, homemade pizza (I am making pizza dough we will see what we have with it), grilled chicken and sweet potato, taco Tuesday!, grilled tuna steaks and fruit plate, meatballs. Friday is the boy’s play (Frozen again)

Hard to believe in about a month the boys will be going back to school. They start back on Aug 23rd. Blake will be a 6th grader and Colby a 5th grader. Time to get back into routines. Getting up in the morning. Eating breakfast (Colby doesn’t eat it on the days he sleeps in late), having simpler healthy dinners.

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Grit- part 1 — seeing grit in yourself and children

Grit BookI have been reading the book Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance by Angela Duckworth. I haven’t finished reading it just yet, but I wanted to share some of my insights to this point.

Grit is a term that was starting to be tossed around in education before I left teaching. Grit is the stick-to-it-ness of people. This book dives into how grit comes about and how it effects each person in their lives.

I have always felt that I am rather gritty in life. I know that I am in my career path. I am a make a goal, stick to the goal type of person. I know that life isn’t perfect. I know that I am not perfect. I also know that I need to stick to the things that I want to accomplish and that both the successes and failures will assist me in growing in my career. I look at each academic year, each new class of children, as an opportunity to grow and develop as a teacher.

I have over the years seen the difference between a child who has grit and those who do not. So much of education and assumed to be based on ability. While having a high ability often makes school easier, it is not the only factor in a child’s success in school. Over the years the children who have made the biggest impact on me are the ones who work hard and overcome the deficits they come to me with. The kindergartners who did not go to preK and hardly know how to write their name and leave writing sentences. The children who come into the classroom not speaking English and leave as fluent readers and writers. The children who do not recognize their numbers and leave understanding addition and subtraction.

But it isn’t only the students who go from below grade level to on grade level who have grit. Some of the children who I worked with that had the most grit were my special needs children. The ones who fight through the pain, both physical and educational pains. The children who struggle to speak in complete sentences who want nothing more than for you to listen to their story.

What I have seen, in my own sons, as well as many gifted children, is that the gifted children often develop grit later than others. Children who learning come easy to do not have to push themselves to gain academic knowledge. They do not have to work to learn, it just happens. So what do we do for these students? How do we help them gain the passion and perseverance to grow in life? How do we help them learn to overcome adversity and move on with life? This in itself is a form of learned helplessness. They feel that they can do anything so when things do not go smoothly they do not know what to do next.

For Blake, he hit this struggle this year. In math this year he actually had to work. He needed to practice the skills worked on in class. He struggled to complete homework assignments and needed to learn to ask for help. He needed to see that even if he got things wrong the first time he could go back and try again. He is learning that life isn’t simple. That all learning isn’t just a matter of showing up and then knowing how to do everything. One of the big things that Richard and I did was let him struggle. He needed to fail. He needed to see that even after he failed he could do it.

As parents we want our children to be successful. We want our children to feel pride. But, are we giving them true pride by using empty praise? When we do things for our children what are we telling them? What happens when you praise a child for their ability and not their practice? What happens when everything easy? How do we push children without hurting them? Is it bad for them to feel hurt from time to time, or will that actually encourage them to step up and try again harder next time?

How do you find that fine line between helping and hurting. If you do too much you are inviting a feeling of learned helplessness. If you do not help enough at certain times are you also bringing on those same feelings? Where is that fine line? Do gritty parents raise gritty kids? Can you increase your level of grittiness in yourself? In your child? The answer is yes, but is isn’t easy and there are many things that must fall into place. Finding something that you are passionate about and finding the perseverance to stick to the thing you are passionate about no matter what is thrown in your way… that is grit.

 

 

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Fireworks and more

Yesterday was the Fourth of July, As I mentioned in my post yesterday, they don’t have town fireworks on the 4th here. We had a quiet day. Richard went for a bike ride. We went to Five Guys for lunch. (We love Five Guys Burgers and Fries!, ok well Blake eats a hot dog and fries, but the rest of us love the burgers).

I then went out for a bit of time shopping on my own. This was two fold, I was bathing suit shopping (read my whine about that here) and I was getting a bit of time away. Richard worked in the garage putting one of our older receivers and speakers out in the garage. As I’ve mentioned in many past posts we always have music going in our house.

Colby decided that we needed to have cookies or something for desert. I tossed out a few suggestions and we decided to make maple and brown sugar oatmeal cookies. Colby helped make the cookies and pretty much made them on his own this time. If you follow my instagram, you saw a picture of this yesterday.

We had steak, sweet potatoes fries and grilled “oven” fries for dinner. I put the sliced sweet potatoes (with EVOO, S&P, sprinkled with cinnamon and nutmeg) into one foil packet. I sliced up two baking potatoes and put them into foil packets too. These get cooked on the grill at the same time as the steak. The potatoes I did one with just EVOO, S&P and the other had a seasoning blend with EVOO. Richard and I devoured the sweet potato packet. Every time we do this we say we need to make this more often, but never do. I really like the slices that get a bit of burnt edge because this adds another layer of flavor and the sugars are typically more caramelized.

While we were waiting for dark, mother nature decided to put on her own fireworks show. We had over an hour of lightning in the distance. There was no rain, there was little to no thunder, but there were some impressive bolts and often the sky lit up like day.

It let up enough right at dark, so cranked up the tunes and lit off some of the fountains that we purchased. The boys also played with snap bangs and sparklers. I brought my new camera out and played with the settings.

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Bathing suit shopping…. UGH!

Today I headed to the store to go bathing suit shopping. I HATE this task. I have hated this task since i was a teen. Is there anything worse than going in and trying on bathing suits?

I went to TJMaxx first. I swear there was no A/C on in the store. When you are hot and sweating, inside the store, it doesn’t help you feel better trying on bathing suits. I think I tried on over a dozen bathing suits. Some didn’t fit. Some didn’t give enough coverage, some were not comfortable, some just didn’t look right on me. I did find one suit that I found acceptable.

I then went over to Target. I had less success there. I didn’t even find as many to try on. I swear the do not make bathing suits for people who have any kind of chest. Not everyone is a size B or C cup (or smaller). Not everyone wants to flaunt all their goods.  I do not want to be popping out all over the place.

I know the fact that I’m not happy with my body image right now doesn’t help the whole shopping process. But, I needed a new suit. I’ll need it for our vacation. I’ll need it because it is summer and there are pools and other water activities to do.

At least I don’t have daughters so it is only me dealing with this shopping drama.

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Catching up on nothing

I realized yesterday while I was typing up the cookie post, that I have been writing a lot of recipe and book review posts lately. I’m not sure why, but it isn’t that life has been dull, or that I don’t have stories to share.

This summer the boys and I have been busy, but not busy. We have a routine, but we don’t. I love the slowness of summer break. I can let them sleep in, ok well I can let Colby sleep in since Blake never sleeps in, but he could if he wanted to. We can go and do if we want or stay home and do nothing if we want.

The weather hasn’t felt very summer lately. Don’t get me wrong we aren’t back into jeans, but it isn’t pool weather either.

The boys finished up their mountain biking classes yesterday. We will have to continue to get them out on the trails with Richard over the weekends, but they aren’t going back to classes. They did have a blast and it has made them both stronger and more confident riders, that was the whole goal.

I don’t have much news on the job search front. I had a second interview, well a working interview at one preschool. That is it. I didn’t apply to the school systems this go around. I decided to try just the preschools for a change of pace for me. Most of the places I contacted were not hiring. Oh well… it works out or it doesn’t.

As we wrap up June, I look towards July. We are going on vacation to Hershey and Amish country. The boys have a second week of theater camp, this time with a younger cast, so they hope to get bigger roles. We will see what else July brings.

So see there isn’t much exciting to write about, but I figured I’d catch you up on the nothing of summer break!

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Photo Fun

So this weekend I decided to splurge on me a bit. Typically I spend more money on everyone else in the house, but from time to time I say… I need x, y or z.

So… this weekend we went to Famous Footwear and I got hiking shoes. I’ve been talking about getting shoes for hiking since we moved here last summer and I finally gave in and bought a pair. I got new gym shoes while I was there since I’d worn a hole in the side of my old pair.

My other splurge was a bit more expensive, but totally worth it and time! I ordered a new camera on Amazon. I actually go the same brand and style I’ve had for my last two cameras, just a newer bit more elaborate model. I am a point and shoot photo taker. I have a Panasonic Lumix camera.

So, on Monday when the boys went to there second to last mountain biking class I put on my new hiking shoes and tossed my camera in my backpack. I thought I’d share the photos I had playing around with my new camera

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Our new city

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Last night we went into the city of Pittsburgh to see Nitro Circus. We are really enjoying IMG_20180622_102302_113these trips into the city. Just like here we lived outside the city in Orlando, but we didn’t go into the city of Orlando that often. Actually most things that people associate with the Orlando area actually aren’t in Orlando itself. The city of Orlando is rather small as far as cities go. There is a lot to do in the Orlando area, but the city itself didn’t hold as much to see and do as bigger cities.

The unique thing about the city of Pittsburgh is that even though it has the attractions and appeal of a big city, there is a lot to it that has more of a small city appeal.

IMG_20180621_204424Last night we were on the banks of the Monongahela River. As I’ve mentioned in previous posts, the city is surrounded by three rivers. The Monongahela (refereed to as the Mon by locals) is the south of the city. We were in an area called the South Side Flats, this is still in city of Pittsburgh, but the outside of the downtown area. During Nitro Circus we were looking across the Mon into the downtown area.

I love the bridges that you see around Pittsburgh. As I mentioned the downtown area is surrounded by rivers, that means you have to cross bridges to get downtown. While I’m not a fan of the traffic you find on these bridges, I love taking pictures of them.

We already have plans to head back to this new area we discovered. We want to ride the incline, go on a duck boat tour and just hang out near the rivers. We look forward to checking out other sections of the city to see what else our new city has in store for us. I know we will continue to enjoy our new home, town and city for years to come.

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In Summerrrrr

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Today is officially the first day of summer. The boys have been out of school for a few weeks. The weather has been warm and the fresh fruits and veggies have started rolling into the grocery stores. So, I guess today doesn’t feel any different than the other days. But, it is the official start of summer. The longest day of the year.

I enjoy the season of summer. I love the fresh fruits and veggies of summer. So many of these you can get all year long but they don’t taste the same as summer fresh. I’m looking forward to peach season. Peach is one fruit that I feel is only worth eating when they are summer fresh.

Summer means slower mornings. Later evenings. Less plans and more family time. It means trips to the library, playing games and hiking. Trips to the pool, grilling and hanging out outside. Summer means reading, watching movies and laughing together.

The boys and I went and got library cards on Tuesday. I picked up two books, including the Elite which is the book after The Selection. I am also reading a book about Grit. That book is a bit text book feeling, but it is a good read. Richard already read this book, and we are considering having the boys read it too. I’ll share more information about it when I finish it.

The boys are already spending more time helping in the kitchen. They have already cleaned their desks, floors, closets and toy boxes. Next week we will tackle their bureaus… ugh!

I love the fact that I’m able to spend the summers with my sons. I realize that there will be a time when they don’t want to spend their time off with their mom, but for now, I’ll enjoy it.

So, happy first day of summer to you. I hope this summer finds you enjoying the sunshine and smiles, relaxation and simpleness of life. Happy summer!

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The Point and North Park

Friday we went into the city. The boys and I met Richard at his job and from there we went to an art’s festival by “The Point”. Point State Park is the location of Fort Duquesne which was part of the start of the French Indian War. (I’d have to have Blake do a blog post to tell you more about it) The Point is also the location where three rivers (the Allegheny, Monogahela and the Ohio) converge.

 

The art festival was… ok. But, we had a good time walking around and just being. I was also able to get a few decent pictures of some of the bridges as well as the incline.

Saturday we got up and headed to North Park. The boys took Richard on another trail that they rode with their mountain bike class. This trail travels across the park so I dropped them off and then moved my car. When the finished they wanted to ride more so they took off on a new trail. This trail also ended in a second spot so I moved the car again. I hiked on two new trails for me too. We were all tired when this was done.

 

While I was hiking I came across this little deer having a snack. I decided to stop and watch. While I was there, the boys and Richard actually made it to where I hiked (we were going in opposite directions). We then headed back to the car.

Last night Colby had two friends over for a late birthday sleep over. They had a blast playing video games, watching a movie and we even went out for ice cream. We are all tired today, but it was a fun weekend.

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hello!

Did you miss me?? I promise I have not fallen off the face of the Earth, or off the blogging bandwagon. Sometimes life is just … life. I promise to get a post up today about the fun we have done this weekend. I also have another book review to post (well I’ll need to write it, but I finished another book). Plus, I have a Must Have Monday running around in my brain.

So be watching for more posts from me… soon!